3 Years Ago Today...


I married my best friend!  What a beautiful day it was: the sun was shining, we had family and friends from all over the east coast in town, and it was just a perfect day.  Our wedding was so much fun, and I would do it all over again if I could.

Who could have ever predicted what would happen to us 2 and a half years later?  As devastating as it seemed at the time, my cancer diagnosis has changed the way we treat each other, for the better.  I know it was hard on Ben, probably harder on him that it was on me.  He was the one who had to hold it all together, he was my "rock" and the one I could depend on every single day.  When someone never lets you down, you find yourself deeply connected to that person - and that is Ben, he has never once let me down.  He is the only one who saw me on my bad days, and did everything he could to make it all better.  He had to watch me suffer, and if the roles were reversed I'm not sure I could do that.  He was forced to take another job right when I was diagnosed, and that was not easy.  The job was still with Enterprise, but learning a new job when your wife was just diagnosed with cancer was just the icing on the cake.  The fall/winter of 2008 totally sucked for us.  But, we got through it - and with God's grace we can get through anything.  With family and friends by our side, we can get through anything.  Where would I be today without my rock?  I'm not sure.  But, thank you Lord for giving me a husband that can handle the roughest of times.

Ben, thank you for always being there for me.  You have never, ever failed me.  You lift my spirits in ways that no one else can.  You always know exactly what to say to make me feel better.  Our wedding song was "Love Will Keep Us Alive" by The Eagles - now isn't that the truth?  Yes it will, love will keep us alive - now and always.  Thank you for being the best husband EVER and I love you!

Happy 3rd Anniversary sweetheart!

Love always,

Kerri

PS...Ben is at home sick today, poor thing!  Yall say a prayer for him!

Pray for this little boy...

This is so awful...


A 13-year old Minnesota boy was diagnosed with Hodgkin's back in January.  His family doesn't believe in modern medicine, and declined treatment for him.  Now the court system is involved, and I hope they can do something for him!

The boy's mother has fled with him after a court-ordered x-ray showed his tumor had grown in size this week.  They have been trying to treat him with "natural" remedies.  These people are obviously completely crazy, and it's just not fair that the boy has to suffer through this.  It's not his fault his parents have gone off the deep end.

So sad!

Mom, Son Flee Chemo Battle

A Survivor has Cancer!


Remember Ethan Zohn from Survivor Africa?  He is one of the most recognized people from that show to date.  He was just diagnosed with Hodgkin's just 2 weeks ago.  He has a rare subtype that will be treated more aggressively than mine.  Just crazy where this cancer pops up.  There was a guy on American Idol a few years back that had it too - remember Luke Menard?  He's in remission now.  Well anyways, I thought this was interesting!

Here's the link:


Here's Luke Menard's blog if you all wanted to see who he is (I couldn't remember!):

http://officiallukemenard.blogspot.com/


Love to all,

Kerri

The Ultimate Super Food - Blueberries


If you don't have a stash of blueberries in the fridge or freezer, you might want to run out to stock up. It seems that good news about the little berries keeps rushing in faster than shoppers storming a Circuit City going out of business sale.

The latest news comes from a study out of Ohio State University finding that blueberries may shrink blood vessel tumors in babies while doubling survival rates. The research team fed blueberry extract to mice that had tumors. The mice receiving the extract lived twice as long as those mice that had blood vessel tumors but didn't take the extract. Also, the tumors in the blueberry mice were 60 percent smaller than those in the control group.

This finding is significant for several reasons. First, blood vessel tumors are the most common tumors among young children, affecting up to 10 percent of all babies. The tumors pose a significant threat to kids: in about one out of 10 cases, the growths obstruct vital organs. The current treatments of choice include high doses of steroids, and if that doesn't work, interferon -- both disastrous for babies, destroying their immune systems, compromising their neurological development, and triggering other serious side effects such as ulcers, fractures, developmental delays, and severe infections. Surgical removal of the tumors typically causes serious or even fatal bleeding, and since the tumors most often locate in the head and neck areas, they tend to cause deformity whether removed or left intact.

Once again, nature's kitchen has brewed up a far better solution than the labs at the major pharmaceutical companies. Given the risk factors and the side effects of current treatments, the discovery that blueberries may do the trick represents a godsend. Blueberries have no side effects, don't cost much, taste good, and if you care about such things, are aesthetically pleasing compared to a bottle of drugstore pills.

The researchers contend that the findings from this study indicate that blueberries may also alleviate melanoma, as well as cancers of the breast, ovaries, and head and neck. More research is underway, while a host of past studies already show that the berries fight other forms of cancer. And so, the benefits revealed by this study may apply to those of us past diaper age (or those approaching it for the second time) -- as do benefits found by scores of previous studies.

For instance, a 2005 study out of the University of Illinois found that wild blueberries inhibited the initiation and proliferation of bladder and liver cancer cells, mostly due to an extremely powerful antioxidant in the blueberries called anthocyanin. (By the way, a concomitant study at Cornell found that the greatest anti-cancer effect came from consuming foods such as berries in their natural state rather than in taking highly concentrated extracts, because the whole food allows the array of phytochemicals in the foods to work in unison)  A 2006 study found that another element in blueberries -- pterostilbene--a compound chemically related to resveratrol -- cut the development of liver cancer lesions in half. And in a 2007 study, pterostilbene reduced pre-cancerous lesions of the colon by 57 percent, while several studies simultaneously found that blueberries help fight prostate cancer.

Still not convinced that it's worth the $4.99 or so to buy a bag of frozen berries? The list of benefits continues on and on. Blueberries have been shown to cleanse the urinary tract and prevent bladder infections, lower cholesterol, promote intestinal health, fight inflammation related to gout and arthritis, reduce nasal congestion, lower cholesterol, and protect against degenerative eye diseases such as macular degeneration, glaucoma, and cataracts.

As if these plusses aren't enough, blueberries also offer profound benefits in the arena of cognitive function. Earlier this month, there was a study indicating that blueberries effectively reversed short-term memory loss in rats suffering from dementia. The blueberry-eating rats showed an 83 percent improvement in memory-related tasks, and the positive effects lasted for nine weeks after the rats stopped eating the blueberries. Continuing studies have shown that blueberries protect against, and even reverse, some of the cognitive loss related to stroke, brain injury, degenerative disease, and normal aging. In fact, the extraordinary cognitive benefits of eating blueberries prompted one of the directors of the USDA's Center for Aging, Dr. James Joseph, to comment, "When it comes to brain protection, there is nothing quite like blueberries."

Blueberries outshine almost all contenders in their antioxidant benefit. According to the USDA, blueberry juice has the highest Oxygen Radical Absorption Capacity (ORAC) -- which measures the free-radical destroying ability of foods -- compared to all juices tested. Blueberry juice measures 2906 on the ORAC scale, followed by grapes at 2377 and pomegranates at 2341. Just for comparison, note that orange juice, that favorite of the masses, comes in at 726 and apple juice at 408. Then again, I wouldn't get too hung up on high ORAC values. Other fruit such as wolfberry and jujube actually score much higher on the ORAC scale. But more importantly, despite the fact the USDA and MLM companies push high ORAC values, they mean far less than they seem.

By the way, take note that wild blueberries outshine their domesticated counterparts in antioxidant value. You can usually find organic wild blueberries frozen in the supermarket or health food store.

So, GO OUT AND BUY BLUEBERRIES TODAY!  They are the ultimate super food!  I eat them just about every day, I buy them fresh but they are just as good frozen.

Hope ya'll are well and having a good week!

Love to all,

Kerri

This article is from johnbarron.org.

Is it really May already???


Whoa!!  Time has suddenly started to FLY for me.  Since I don't have to go to the doctor until June, I haven't had to really pay attention to the days or dates at all!  Before, I had to watch the calendar like a hawk to make sure I didn't miss any appointments.  Now, it's just like it used to be.  I don't have to be anywhere at any certain time - I LOVE IT!!!!!!  Ok except work, but that doesn't count right?  ;)

May and August are my favorite months of the year.  May is the month Ben and I got married, and August has both of our birthdays along with a ton of our family members birthdays as well.  I can't believe we've been married 3 years on May 27th - I guess time really flies when you're having fun!  May is when flowers start to really bloom, perfect 80 degree weather starts to stick around and grilling out becomes an every night affair.  You just can't beat it.  May is also when Mothers Day falls (usually) and we have a lot of Moms in our lives that we are thankful for.  

We have some fun things planned for May.  This past weekend was a friends bachelorette party, and WOW, what a fabulous time!  Mrs. soon to be Allen (Beth Millians) did a great job Sat night, she was a trooper!  There were 14 of us in a huge hummer limo. Their wedding is May 23rd - we can't wait!

This weekend is a "cocktail supper" in honor of Jenny Santora and Chris Hagy in Atlanta.  Jenny is the sister of my bf from college - Kristie.  We are looking forward to spending the weekend with Kristie and her boyfriend, and getting to see Jenny and Chris as well.  Fun times! 

My Mom is in town all week spending some time with me, and Ben is out of town for work in Savannah until Friday (not fair!) so we are just hanging out and doing a little decorating around my house.  Thanks Mom for coming to spend the week with me!  :)

I have a prayer request for Ben's grandfather - Papaw.  He is currently undergoing open heart surgery for 5 blockages, so please pray for him, and everyone who is in Kentucky helping them right now.  

We would like to wish these ladies a HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!

My Mom
Mrs. Linda, my mother-in-law
ReRe, Ben's paternal grandmother
Memaw, Ben's maternal grandmother
Brandy, my sister-in-law
Stephanie, Ben's sister
Aunt Penny, Ben's aunt
Aunt Janet, Ben's aunt
Aunt Sandy, Ben's aunt
Jennifer, Ben's cousin
Seana, Ben's cousin
Hannah, Ben's cousin by marriage
Tracy, my aunt
Laura Herron, great friend of mine
Abbie Ethun, great friend of mine

And everyone else who reads this blog that is a Mom!!!  

I thought these pics were hilarious, nothing wrong with a little Mother's Day FUN!



HAHA!

I consider myself a Mom.  I have a spoiled rotten kitty that I treat as if she were human - so I'm her mama.  Yes, Ben gets me a card from Gracie every year, weird?  maybe.  Do I think it's the cutest thing in the world?  yes.  My fam has always done gifts from animals, my parents dogs give Christmas gifts every year.  Smart dogs!

WE LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH!  We hope your day is wonderful!

Love to all,

Kerri